Helpful tips for medical trips
It’s common for children to worry about a visit to the doctor. Here are five ways that you can support your child before, during and after a medical appointment.
1. Prepare your child for what to expect before an appointment.
- Use a toy doctor kit or things you have around the house. This helps a child get familiar with what happens at a visit.
- Allow your child to role play being the doctor.
- Read books about visiting the doctor.
2. Listen to your child’s fears or concerns.
- A child may worry about a visit being painful. If your child asks about whether or not he/she will get a poke, be honest. If you aren’t sure of the answer, tell say the doctor will decide whether or not an injection or a blood draw is needed.
- Give a simple explanations to your child for shots or blood draws. Use phrases like “medicine to help you stay healthy,” “checking a little bit of your blood to make sure it is healthy,” or “checking a little bit of your blood so we know how to help you feel better.”
- Brainstorm with your child for ways to make the appointment a little easier. Offering choices helps the child feel in control. Examples of choices may include which ear is examined first or sitting on your lap during a poke.
3. Provide comfort and respect feelings.
- Avoid saying things like “Don’t cry,” “Be a big boy/girl,” or “The shot won’t hurt.”
- Reassure your child that you’ll be right there.
- Your child will sense how you are feeling. Staying calm helps your child stay calm.
4. Bring comfort and distraction items.
- Blankets or pacifiers may help calm your child.
- A favorite stuffed animal, doll or action figure can be examined first to help your child feel at ease.
- Having activities to distract your child will lower the anxiety level while waiting or during procedures. You also can try playing a game of I Spy, singing songs or telling stories.
5. Have something fun to look forward to.
- Give plenty of praise to your child or have a fun activity arranged for after the visit.
- The positive encouragement should be given regardless of a child’s anxiety level during the appointment. If the child was unable to control his/her anxiety, missing out on a fun experience that was planned for after the appointment will make it even worse.
- Celebrate after an appointment to help pave the way for future visits.